How to find love and get the love you deserve-
The Love Genies, Robbin and Joseph Everett are relationship gurus specializing in advice for people with pets. You can hear them discuss relationships on their weekly radio to podcast show, “Pets Teach Us So Much”.
What is the first step to finding love?
Many single pet lovers ask themselves, “Self, how do I find my forever pet loving mate?” How do you find the relationship you deserve?
So, let’s breat it down and keep it real. We can compare finding a mate to the pet adoption process. First, you decide what you want-cat, dog, bird, fish? What are you willing to put into the relationship? How much time do you have? Do you want to be out with a high-needs pet, walking it several times a day? Would you rather be cured up by the fire and just sprinkle a few flakes in a bowl?
See where we are going? If you don’t decide what you want, you may end up with something you really don’t want or like at all. It’s hard to walk a fish! You can try to walk a fish, but YOU CAN’T CHANGE A FISH into a bird, or a cat, or a dog. Decide what you want in a relationship, because you can’t change people.
Decide what your boundaries are and what your ultimate goal is. Is it a forever home? Do you want a casual cat night out? Perhaps a romp in the park or share a Frosty Paws treat!
Wandering around, wanting all of the pets in the adoption center means ultimately you will end up with the wrong fit. A forever relationship, if that is your goal, is one that you will want and be open to.
Set your parameters and your expectations. Be kind to yourself and to others. Be true to yourself and gentle with other’s feelings. Ask for what you want. Get what you deserve. This is how you open yourself up to finding love. This is the first step to finding love and getting the love you deserve.
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